I have tried to date some, but most want to build a relationship on sex, money, image and material things which I find to be pretty lame, if that's all you have to bring to the table then we have nothing to talk about. If I meet someone, it does take me awhile too meet them. Why? Most have ulterior motives to get you into bed, but when they don't succeed, you never hear from them again. How poignant!!! We all have our faults, I'm not perfect by no means. It takes a real man to admit his wrongs and learn from them. It would be nice find a man who expands my horizons as I expand his...is not hung up on stereotypical definitions of masculinity nor on being gay. I'd like a man that's going to except me for me and not change me into what he wants me to be! I don't want to play house or games. I've come to realize along time ago that I don't need someone to carry me....I'm standing on much firmer ground on my own! I need real communication, someone who is able to listen and not over analysis everything. I would eventually like to be in a lasting relationship with a real honest man who values monogamy, honesty and is trusting. I appreciate a man who is articulate and not afraid to say what's in his heart or mind ... we don't necessarily like each other interests, but is interested in both exploring each other's interests and sharing our interests with each other. If you want to know anything about me...just ask! Sexual racism is LAME!!!!