I was born in Florida and I'm 7/8 Cajun by appetite, although I'm technically French Creole... I'm a beach boy at heart and by attitude -- I let very little get to me.
I'm what I call fading blond most of the year and brunette during the winter. My eyes change color based on both what I'm wearing and the time of day. My drivers license says they are green, but I've heard blue, brown, hazel, and gray from different people. I've had friends describe my eyes as being like moodrings.
I love playing guitar. I haven't played my bass or electric much since my band (and my amp) broke up back in high school, but I still love playing my acoustic. I actually just got a ukulele for my birthday and I'm in love with it. Harder to pick up on but still pretty awesome. Despite how much I love playing guitar, I LOVE LOVE LOVE to sing. I'm always singing (except when Spring's joyous shower of pollen first kicks in.)
I am exhibitionist/nudist by nature. I can't help it. If I can be nude, I am. I always hit nude beaches whenever I am in the vicinity of one. I'm even contemplating joining a naturist/naturalist organization, but I have a problem with the fact that most of the people in them are much older than I am. I wish there was a "youth" naturist club here. I find it attractive in a partner if they are willing to join me, or at least are supportive of my exhibitionist nature. It's just who I am. Don't like it? Move on.
I've dated almost an equal number of guys and girls in my life. Haven't really made up my mind. I love golden tans and I'm a sucker for toned (not ripped) stomachs. I prefer guys that aren't buff and I like guys that are shorter than me. In fact, I hate it when a guy is taller than me. I've always been infatuated with cuteness... and by that I don't mean hot, I mean cute. So, along with that, I definitely can't date somebody older than me. I have some kind of mental blockage there. I am also not attracted to feminine guys at all. If I wanted to date a girl, I'd date a real one.
my life lately
While I was in college I headed off to Australia to go to school in Sydney for a semester. It's a gorgeous place to live and I'm having a hard time trying not to pretend that I'm still there. A lot of my American friends that were there at the time have also either visited again or even moved back. I still have every intention of going back to live there permanently someday. I have a tattoo of a boomerang on my right shoulder reminding me of that goal every day. Outside of my stay in Australia, I've pretty much been living in Charlotte for the last fifteen years since moving here from Jacksonville, FL where I grew up. I constantly go on road trips all around Florida. I guess my mind never really left.
I graduated from Charlotte (aka UNCC) with a B.S. in Psychology back in '08 and I'm now trying to figure out what I'm going to do with my life. I plan on going back to get my masters, but I have a few things I want to do before that.
I love traveling. In all reality, I really just can't stand staying in one place too long. I've done the world's third highest bungee jump in New Zealand and I want to jump from the top two now. If you haven't gone before, I highly recommend it. I think everybody should try it at least once sometime in their life. It's just one of those feelings you never forget. The day after that I was supposed to go skydiving, but the wind conditions were too strong so we had to cancel and move on with the vacation. I still intend on doing that on the first opportunity that presents itself.
I understand the reason why a lot of people don't put face pictures or even real pictures on here, and I respect that. However, for the same reason, how do I know I don't know you or that you aren't who you say you are? I've had my fair share of creepers in the past. Don't get mad if I don't pay you a lot of attention just for that reason. I like to see who I'm talkin to.